.A grown-up with a topsy-turvy add-on type, occasionally pertained to as anxious-avoidant attachment style, battles to count on folks. Often in relationships, their actions is actually inconsistent and also chaotic. Typically, this add-on design establishes when one's main caregiver is both a resource of love and also worry throughout their youth. In their adult years, Viviana located herself imitating her mama's hot-and-cold behavior in her personal charming relationships. "I'll be actually definitely right into somebody and when they're truly right into me, I'm like, 'Okay, you need to disappear, feel free to,'" she claims. "The instant they leave, I'm like, 'Stand by, feel free to come back. Passion me.' And then I'll perform everything to keep their interest. I see it with my mama, as well. I desired to join her. Yet when I acquired close to her, that's when the waistband would show up.".